So, as you can see, today we feel like talking about BDSM. How much do you know about this porn category? Do you like only sick and traumatized people are into it? What do you think – is it healthy or unhealthy? There are benefits of BDSM, did you know it? And the last question – do you like BDSM sexy cam shows? You can say this or that, but this topic interests you, today we will deal with it a bit. There are just so many fun facts about BDSM that are worth knowing.
Here on Sexed Chat, we have many BDSM sexy cam models. Girls, boys and trans models – they are all into it! And why not try it? People who explore their sexuality more than others are happier people. It is because this sexual freedom feels so good! Prudery and only the basics are for those that do not like to experiment. But if you never experiment, you never truly get to know yourself. Many say no to BDSM because they think it is too bizarre. But here’s the thing – BDSM has layers, and some acts are closer to being vanilla than others.
BDSM is a much broader term than you may think. It includes a plethora of acts and behaviors. Some are more unusual and socially unacceptable than others, sure. If you do not know much about BDSM, maybe you avoid this category on porn sites. Maybe you never watch BDSM sexy cam shows? If that is the case, you are missing out on a lot. But you know what? Today you will learn some cool things about these sexual practices. Maybe you end up loving it! Don’t you feel tired of the same old acts in bed? Let’s learn about something new!
Types of BDSM and BDSM Acts on Sexy Cam Shows
Here are some types of BDSM! Dominance and submission, bondage, roleplay, wax play, impact play and spanking, sadism and masochism, pain play, humiliation play, sensation play and edgeplay… These are a few BDSM practices, but there is more. When you see the BDSM sexy cam category, you probably expect models to try only things like dominance, bondage and spanking. But when the sexy cam models are more experienced, they also do the rest of these things. They can be quite fun, when you try them with right people.
Dominance can both be male or female. When girls are dominant, that is called femdom. Lately, femdom porn has been more popular than ever! There are many sexy cam models that are female Doms. When you watch these women perform, they are bossy and bitchy, ruthless and sadistic. They tell men what to do. Men are their sex slaves. Roleplay is also one of the most popular categories. Everyone likes a hot sexy cam chick in a costume! People fantasize about having sex with their favorite movie and cartoon heroes and heroines. Masochism and sadism is probably the most brutal part of BDSM. And you have humiliation, which can be a bit bizarre to many.
On sexy cam sites, when you choose BDSM, here is what you get! Scarf bondage or tie bondage, handcuffs, roleplaying, light or severe spanking, blindfolds, hair pulling. These things can be so sexy on sexy cam shows of couples. Sometimes solo models do it, which is also amazing. When you are on Sexed Chat, check out our BDSM models because you will see the biggest baddies on the web. These models will show you how to enjoy life. And they will hook you rapidly.
And did you know there are classes for BDSM erotic play?
The Positive Impact of BDSM Cam Shows
There are three big benefits of BDSM practices. Do you know that it improves our mental health? Maybe this sounds like a contradiction. After all, we think that BDSM lovers are weird and too kinky. But when you watch sexy cam shows with BDSM models, and try BDSM yourself, this increases your sense of well-being. Just trying new things and opening yourself to something fresh and different is a good thing. Of course, if you are too fragile, maybe it just isn’t for you. But people also get more conscientious toward their partners doing it.
BDSM sexy cam shows and BDSM in general reduce stress. Some researches even compare the effects of BDSM to yoga! When we do BDSM, we lower the levels of the stress hormone we know as cortisol. Cortisol is something that can do dangerous things to our bodies. When we do not take care of it, of course. It can be the cause of many health problems. And here’s a funny thing – BDSM is also like a spiritual experience, according to some. But when you think about it, it truly is. It is out of this world!
Here is the best thing for some – BDSM sexy cam shows and BDSM practices can improve relationships. You either watch sexy cam shows and get ideas, or you try these things with your partner(s). It is something very intimate and you have to reveal a big part of yourself. When people accept this part of you, you feel good. And there will always be those who support it. Those who want to try it too, with you! BDSM also floods our brains with dopamine. Dopamine is that chemical that makes us feel good. Even though BDSM can be painful, it actually brings us a lot of joy and pleasure.
Misconceptions
Do you know why not everyone has tried BDSM already? Because of all the misconceptions! BDSM can be painful, brutal and dangerous, but it is not always like that! Sometimes people start feeling like their sex lives are boring. Maybe some BDSM acts would be perfect for you and your partner. You do not need to start with dungeons and cages! Slight spanking is a BDSM act, and yet, it is very satisfying. Different toys are also for BDSM lovers. Toys can enrich your sex life when you are open to them.
So, what are these misconceptions? Maybe you have some of them? All of them? Let’s see!
Misconception 1 – Doms Have All the Power
We have already mentioned what Doms are. Everyone who is dominant in bed is a Dom. This can be a man or a woman. The gender is not important. Some men like bossy women, some women love commanding men. But here is the thing – the Doms are not in charge! The submissive partners are. Wow, what? Yes, dominant partners cannot control their Subs if they do not let them. So, when you think about it, the Subs have the power. They just choose others to control their actions. This can stop at any point. People who do BDSM always have safe words. They used these words when they want to stop being controlled.
Misconception 2 – You Can Do BDSM Only with Strangers
It might surprise you how many people believe this. We only try BDSM play with people we do not know? This is far from the truth! In fact, it cannot be farther! On the contrary, when we do BDSM, it is with those who know. Those who make us feel comfortable. Someone who accepts us, all our quirks. And these people are open-minded, always. Everyone who does BDSM is broad-minded and spontaneous. But BDSM is not spontaneous, as some think. This is a practice that has to be negotiated first.
Also, you cannot do BDSM with someone or to someone who does not want it. You cannot do it when you have a one-night stand. This is very rare. But if you are into BDSM, and you suggest it to someone you do not know well, the chances are high they will not agree to it. So, BDSM is not spontaneous and it is not something you do with strangers. Even if these situations exist, it is extremely uncommon.
Misconception 3 – BDSM Is for Sexists, It Is All About Pleasing Men
Maybe you think it because you watch too much porn. And, okay. In the porn world and the world of sexy cam sites, more women please men. It is rarer to see that men please women without getting something. But you do have this on certain erotic sites. Some sites are all about pleasing women only! That is why we have also mentioned femdom.
Do not forget that some porn sites celebrate femdom. What happens when men have to be obedient and submissive? They are sex slaves of women and they act like their dogs. These men lick their feet and heels, or do even filthier things. So, we never have just one polarity. There are sites where women please men more. You also have sites where women’s pleasure is more important. The best case is when it is mutual. And when you try real BDSM, it is mutual! It is all about both partners receiving pleasure. It is just that one feels good being dominant, the other one being submissive.
Maybe you have watched too many movies such as 50 Shades of Grey. Or been on too many mainstream porn sites. If that is stopping you from trying BDSM, do not let it! BDSM practice should be about understanding, working together, agreement. Also, both partners work on making the other person feel good. It does not matter if you are a Dom, or a Sub. You always just have to set boundaries. And if you do not and someone treats you the way you don’t like it, that is a red flag. It is not even legal.
Misconception 4 – There Is No Consent When You Practice BDSM
Again, something that we believe when we watch two much mainstream porn. But these porn sites serve to make you think these women are not consensual. There is a part of us that is sick indeed. We sometimes like to see a fake rape scene, something that looks brutal. Dangerous even. When you watch mainstream BDSM porn, you see a lot of men forcing girls to do stuff. This is not the reality. BDSM is all about consent! No one will come to your dungeon accidentally, because they got lost or something. When people go to dungeons, they know what they are dealing with!
Misconception 5 – People into BDSM Are in Dysfunctional Relationships
When you watch 50 Shades of Grey, of course you will think so! In that movie, the main character can only be in a dysfunctional relationship. But BDSM does not necessarily mean that a relationship is dysfunctional. It is not what it makes it dysfunctional. Relationships can be dysfunctional out of a myriad of reasons! In fact, name one single relationship that is 100% functional. There are always things we have to work on to have a healthy relationship. So, BDSM is not synonymous to dysfunctional.
Misconception 6 – You Need to Invest Much Money In BDSM
Sure, there are people who do invest a fortune in BDSM. They need a dungeon and a plethora of toys and tool to be happy. Some have devices, this or that. But just because they have all this, you do not have to! BDSM does not have to be expensive. If you use your imagination, you can be very creative with what you have. You do not need devices and tools for BDSM. Do not forget that some BDSM acts are free.
Misconception 7 – BDSM People Do Not Have Normal Sex and Connections
If they tell you people who like BDSM are not normal and their relationships are not normal, this is a false statement. First of all, what is a normal relationship? What is normal and usual for you does not have to be acceptable for me. Maybe I am wilder, more creative, a bigger exhibitionist? Or, vice versa. Whatever the case is, define normal and then think about BDSM. Okay, BDSM will not be normal to some. These people do not like these experiments in bed.
But, loving BDSM does not mean you have only unhealthy and unusual relationships. They can be pretty normal.
Misconception 8 – BDSM is always the same
Nope, it is not the same for everyone. Is anything, really? Basically, we are all very different and unique. We all have our unique tastes, traits, preferences… In BDSM you will do things that you like the most. Some like more spanking, others like a lot of humiliation. There are those that like devices and brutality. And yeah, some BDSM lovers are more prone to more vanilla acts. They try a bit of BDSM, but they feel better with the basics.
Misconception 9 – BDSM Is Only for Sex Partners
Under the BDSM umbrella, you have more than you can imagine. If you think BDSM is only about sex, you are so wrong. Some people practice BDSM with friends! It does not even have to be about sex. It does not even have to be about romance and romantic relationships. When you are ready to explore life, you learn life is much more than you thought it was. Some people go far and they try a lot of unusual things with people they know. So, no. BDSM is not only about being submissive in bed. You can also be submissive when you are asexual.
Misconception 10 – Doms Do Not Respect Their Submissives
Just because you are dominant and commanding, it does not mean you are disrespectful. On the contrary, you respect someone’s wish to be your sex slave. Doms only do what submissives want them to. If a submissive wants spanking or wax play, Doms do it. But they never do things their submissives dislike. Having a BDSM agreement means even more respect than in standard relationships. You accept someone’s kinky nature. You stay with them and do what they like. You share these kinks.
Misconception 11 – People Are Kinky Because Someone Used to Abuse Them
This can be the case, but it is not a constant. It is not what you always have in the situation. Sure, some victims of abuse in the past develop love for kinks. Others have never been abused, but they just like to try new things. And when they tried BDSM, they liked a part of it. Or all of it. So, when you meet a BDSM lover, do not assume they have been a victim of abuse. This is not true 100% of the time.
Conclusion
Now you probably know more about BDSM than you did before reading this. Did you have some of these misconceptions? Now you can watch our sexy cam models who are into BDSM knowing all this! They will probably be even hotter! Check out the BDSM tag on Sexed Chat. We have so many beauties here! And whenever you feel like trying it, now you know it is all about consent and agreement with your partner. Someone who shares your interests and curiosity. Ready to make your own dungeon?
