Being a cam girl is not easy. There are so many things you have to think about. How to be sexy? What to do to be more enticing to your clients? How to be better than most of your competition – other live cam girls? And while there are so many questions of this kind, you also have to be very respectful and charming, polite and professional. So, it’s not something everyone can do. Maybe it looks like duck soup, but it’s far from that. Yet, do you know what’s the worst thing about this job? You often face jerks and freaks, people who don’t know how to behave. Because it happens to the models on SexedChat, we felt like writing an article about it.
It happens everywhere. It doesn’t matter if you work on StripChat, Chaturbate, Cam Soda, My Free Cams – live cam girls are sometimes under a lot of pressure and stress because they have clients who are terrible. Some men, and even women who are users of these sites, can be very hard to please. We see that all the time, whatever job we do. People are just hard to work with and we don’t enjoy their company. But if you are a cam site user, there are things you should pay attention to.
If you want to make your favorite live cam girls feel good about you, don’t be a cantankerous loser, who makes cam girls feel like shit. In fact, we will tell you what to do and how to behave to be their favorite viewer! It’s going to be very useful for the newbs!
First and foremost, be ready to tip your live cam girls
If you are a fan of camming and you visit steamy sex cam sites regularly, you know how this profession or branch of porn has altered the entire industry. Today we have so many DIY adult stars, girls who create their own content on various platforms. You can be a model on our site or any other live cam site, but you also have apps like Only Fans and simply Instagram, where you can post nudes and risque content. Whatever you choose, you will have to perform for strangers. These are people you don’t know, and you don’t know what to expect. Do you know how much a model has to leave their comfort zone for this job?? They really must be brave!
And because live cam girls are so brave, audacious, and awesome, they deserve clients and followers who are equally awesome. If you like camming, here’s the first thing you must know – it’s never really free!
Sure, you can try to find free live cam sites, and God knows there are things like that on the web. You will see meta descriptions that promise a free camming experience, or something that resembles these words. However, no model really performs for free, especially if they choose this to be their profession.
If you plan to view sex cam shows of live cam girls, always show the girls you respect them by paying for the shows. If you don’t have to pay for a membership or shows, tips are a great way to show your appreciation.
Gifts combined with tips are desirable!
Maybe there are cultures in which tipping for shows of this kind would seem impolite. But here’s what you should know – these live cam girls decided to put effort into becoming successful in this field. To them, receiving big tips is a sign that they are good workers. Yes, some of them already have salaries and other benefits that their companies give them. They are well-provided and they even have health insurance and various perks. However, is there anything sweeter than seeing a generous tip from your loyal fan?
These girls like the attention and they want you to be satisfied. Additionally, nothing makes them happy when the viewers keep coming back. It’s a big compliment to a cam girls, seeing the same usernames over and over again. And the only thing that is even juicier and enjoyable is seeing these followers giving generous tips! Also, some sites allow the users to give gifts to cam girls. Why not? Give them both money and gifts, that will make them even more motivated and ebullient!
Respect the prices – another quality of a great user
Ok, we have already written that even when the sites are free, the shows are never really gratis. This means that you should give tips even when you see that the performances are on the house. But there are some users that do tip, but they refuse to pay the full price for a show. Some think that certain shows are overpriced, and they don’t want to pay through the nose just to see a cam girl in her birthday suit.
But here’s what you should know – some shows are pricier for a reason. Maybe these live cam girls simply have better equipment. This means they invested more in this job, and they bought better cams and lighting. There are models that buy more expensive lingerie and sex toys, and they spend money on details that cost an arm and a leg. Don’t forget that some models here are more experienced, or they have richer resumes. So many things can influence the prices of cam shows, but some models are simply more popular and hard-working, and they feel like they deserve more money for their performances.
Whatever the case is, there are no shows that you should find too expensive to pay for! If you can’t afford certain shows, it doesn’t mean you should offend the models or the company, or write negative reviews and post them. Everyone deserves to earn a lot of money, but some people are braver and they ask for more. Unfortunately, there are shows and models on cam sites that are pricey. Not everyone can pay for these shows, and we do want to see them all! But be rational and a grown-up about it, don’t be a jerk just because you don’t have enough money.
You are not always right, even as a customer
There will always be people who think they own others just because they give them money. The more you give, the more you feel confident about making people who work for you feel small. But hey, these girls or boys might be giving you their services, but they wouldn’t be there if you didn’t need them! Maybe you are the oney with the wallet, but they are the ones who can make you pay. The truth is, you need these performers as much as they need you.
Many customers forget that, though. They start asking live cam girls for certain acts just because they think the models must do everything they want them to. But here’s a thing – the models are not your slaves. They are regular people, just like you. Even if you want them to do something specific or kinky, you can’t just expect it because you gave them a 10 dollar tip. Even if you give them a 1000-dollar tip, it doesn’t mean you are always right and you can say whatever you want. You still mustn’t be disrespectful and mean. Some girls are very delicate and this kind of behavior makes them insecure and stressed.
Everyone likes a polite customer!
If a model sets boundaries, can you respect them? When live cam girls don’t feel like doing everything you want, can you be OK with that? The models also have their good and bad days, and they aren’t always open to all kinds of kinks. If a model is polite and respectful, as their fan, you should also be kind and humble. It’s not hard, and even if you feel like insulting or saying mean things, use that frustration for something much more creative. Paint, write, do exercises!
A part of being polite is not suggesting the models do anything too weird. Unfortunately, there are many customers that don’t know what’s cool and what’s disgusting. They ask the models to do all sorts of really kinky stuff, and some of them don’t even ask – they demand it! Models are not there to be your slaves, they perform what makes them feel good and sexy. If you need a site with kinky shows, you can surely find a number of them, you just need to look for them. But even if the models do agree to bizarre acts, you should still ask them kindly.
Insulting live cam girls is out of the question
The world would be a much better place if we were all civilized. It doesn’t even take much to be like that, you just have to forget about swearing and insulting the models. Ok, some models like to tease and they are naughty and they don’t show you skin even when you pay them. But this is not a reason to say ugly words to them! It is just a part of their act, it is a role they play. Some models do that to make you even hornier, they never do that because their intentions are impure.
And your intentions should be right as well! Even if a model does turn out to be a disrespectful performer, which is rarely the case, it doesn’t mean that you should be bitchy or demanding, too. Some models learn how to fight with the customers because they don’t want to let anyone humiliate them and make them feel small. But, you should know one thing – models are not prone to doing this because they could lose their job. If you knew how many rules they must follow, you would never even think about being a baddie.
No fighting with other users!
What’s interesting, some people are ideal customers, who treat the models with a lot of respect and they even make them feel special. But, there will always be other users of the site, who you may find annoying. Someone is being rude or they are in the mood to fight. There are users that mock other customers, or those that mock the performers! Yes, maybe you are kind and perfect, but you will feel like fighting with these rude jerks. However, be a bigger man and don’t do anything silly.
First of all, the model will be uncomfortable. You might think a fight between two users always makes the performer feel good and special, but no. It’s scary and unpleasant, and it doesn’t just make the model feel bad – other users also feel bad vibes. No one likes fights while watching a sex cam show! If people want fighting, they just play an action movie! There are niches in porn that also deal with fighting. You have wrestle porn and similar categories, but that is all mostly staged. Even the kinkiest camming shows won’t support real quarrels.
Don’t praise live cam girls who are competitors
This is a very stupid thing to do. You know, imagine you were a model, and the competition was stiff. This is the scenario: you try hard and work hard like a horse, but no matter how much you invest in your equipment and study the competition, you are never good enough because someone else is simply more charismatic. It’s tough to be mediocre, especially if you want to see yourself as someone successful and special. Now, a random customer sees your show, and they leave you comments like: ’’That other model was way hotter!’’ How would you feel?
Some live cam girls may react positively to a comment of this kind. It motivates them to become even better, and they become more skilled, they try new things, broaden their horizons. But you can’t risk encountering a model who has a low self-esteem. Some girls and boys who do this job don’t like themselves enough. They need attention and praises to make them feel more confident. If you were brutally honest to them in a way to tell them they are not good enough, it could make them feel very depressed. Some of them are so fragile that they even quit because of comments like that.
So, even if you do think that another model is better, just go and watch other shows! There is no need to point out that other performers are more stunning and awesome. Everyone is doing their best to offer us what they can. Some models are simply less beautiful or their sexual energy is not the most enticing on the site. This doesn’t mean they deserve to hear complaints.
If you do want to help, you can suggest models to try new clothes, lingerie and toys. But that’s it, do it kindly.
Give compliments and tell models they are sexy
Do you like to receive compliments? Well, no matter how much a person is confident, hearing a new compliment every now and then always makes us feel good about life. Some of these models are a bit insecure, and they really need it. But even those who already love themselves in a healthy way can sometimes use praises. It is what will motivate the models be even better! When someone tells us we are gorgeous, sexy, interesting, we feel more energetic and we do things better! If you really want a model to slay it, give them a compliment.
Also, these models that receive compliments and praises will probably be in the mood to try something sexier, more audacios, and they will even do kinky things for you. When you tell them they are doing what they are doing perfectly, it will motivate them to do it even more! Now, if you combine these compliments with regular visits and gifts, your model will always be thrilled to see you! They might even mention you, or dedicate certain kinks to you. Sometimes it is enough to say that the model has sexy lingerie.
So, whatever you do, just show that you are civilized and professional just like these models. This job might look like a piece of cake, but you don’t know what these models have to go through to do it. They have to make sacrifices and give up on a lot of things other people have just to do this well. They have to eat well, exercise, say goodbye to their social lives, some of them get rejected by their parents and relatives because they are not open-minded enough. Do you think all that effort is nothing?
Therefore, the least you can do is be a good customer. Tip, give them gifts, never start fights, never insult the models and be respectful and polite, and whatever you like or not, don’t show the models you don’t find them hot enough. How would you feel others did it to you? Even if people do tell you you are not good enough, the models don’t deserve to see how frustrated you are. If anything, they will always welcome you and this is where you can be yourself, relaxed and relieved. So, give them love because they give love to you, every time they perform for you!